I agree but also it can be depressing. I don't really see it that way but it just depends on how you listen to it. But they make you feel stronger than sad which is why I think listening to Evanescence and other bands a like can prevent suicide and save lives. This music is real and great. I've felt really low a while ago for a long time and the music helped me. Also made me feel sad but most of the songs made me feel happy and stronger. The big difference between more mainstream music is that many songs won't help you, it's more for parties or something. Some are good but some not and this is real. Evanescence did inspire me to be a better musician and took me to a new genre.